“No Matter What” this weekend. Expectation Vs Reality Expectation Vs Reality PICS Biblical Expectations : Scripture speaks to these expectations Unrealistic Expectations : Not mentioned in scripture The Top 4 needs of a man are honor, sex, friendship, and help. The Top 4 of a woman are security, affection, communication, and leadership. VALIDATE: Demonstrate or support the truth or value of. 1. Wives are expected to honor their husbands. Ephesians 5:24 But as the church is subject to Christ, so also wives should be subject to their husbands in everything [respecting both their position as protector and their responsibility to God as head of the house].